Disputes and disagreements between two people invariably arise, but not all of them require radical measures in the form of broken relationships.
Most of the difficulties and problems can be solved through negotiations and a basic desire to meet each other. Unfortunately, some couples break up at the peak of the conflict. Someone is waiting proudly, focusing on their resentment, while others are expressing on emotions everything that “has become boiled and accumulated”. And only after the breakup, the partners realize how important it was to negotiate, outplay the situation and preserve the relationship.
Disputes on domestic soil
Your partner made complaints, you didn’t understand them, got offended and the scandal started to get emotionally worse. It is this kind of behavior that prevents you from looking at what is happening calmly and rationally, and the situation takes uncontrollable turns. In this case, it is important not to find out everything on higher tones – explain calmly what is bothering you.
The desire to remake the partner
At the time of the quarrel, you did not come to an understanding, and the partner never agreed that he was wrong. Unfortunately, women and men in a relationship are often mistaken in believing that it is their point of view that is correct, and the second party to the relationship must accept it. But this is far from it – you have to understand and accept your partner’s world. With all its shortcomings. He can think, do, feel not as you want, but as he sees for himself, and he is absolutely right about this.
Conflicts involving a child
This problem brings endless scandals into your life together. Psychologists argue that parents should by no means transfer problems of personal relationships to children. As an important point in education is that parents act together, and do not use the child as an argument to prove anything to the partner – such a tactic will not only exacerbate problems between spouses, but also make a serious imbalance in the life and behavior of the child.
All features of building a financial relationship in a pair are solvable, but they require negotiation and the establishment of a set of rules that will govern this area of your life together. There are several options for managing the family budget, and after discussing all the important points, you can choose a suitable option for you, which would suit all interested parties.